Showing posts with label Zonegran. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Zonegran. Show all posts

Monday, May 9, 2016

He did it

Arthur weaned off the Zonegran
without any issues



It was quite scary but worth it.
He  dealt with a little insomnia but nothing else!!!!!!


He will remain on the Keppra and we won't even
discuss weaning that for two more years



It is amazing to see how far he has come. He truly is lucky.
We know epilepsy is still part of our lives and
he is always at risk.
But, finally, this boy........gets a positive nod from life

Tuesday, March 1, 2016

Still weaning.......one more week

We have been weaning Arthur's Zonegran for
about a month. The neurologist said we could wean by 25mg a week.

But that seemed awfully fast. 


He was on 100mg a day. First week we went to 75mg, 
Second week we went to 50mg.


This may not seem fast to some people but it started to feel like.....

So, the Third week we stayed at 50mg
Two weeks at 50mg and there was no issues.....
But we can't forget, Arthur has never been seizure free on less than 100mg of Zonegran on top of his 3000mg/day of Keppra


So we are continuing in true, uncharted epilepsy territory
I feel like the man in the cave. I'm hopeful, yet so terrified
It feels like it could all come crashing down around us, lost in the abyss
OR
We will reach the light......
God, I hope we get there and stay there


The Fourth week we decreased to 25mg

We agreed on an extra week at 25mg like we did at 50mg
Just to play it safe


Only side effect we are noticing is insomnia
From what I read and was told, the side effects that he had with the Keppra before we
added the Zonegran, may re-appear

He did struggle with sleep before adding the Zonegran. But the neurologist feels it will only be temporary while the body adjusts.

We sure hope so. Arthur is a bit.......


Besides the insomnia, Arthur's wean is going well. This Saturday night will
be his last dose of Zonegran.

Please keep him in your thoughts and prayers











Wednesday, February 3, 2016

Weaning again......


Arthur remains seizure free since our wean last year!!
(knock on wood)

Before his most recent neurology visit he mentioned he would
like to try weaning his Zonegran again. Gulp!
So we talked to the Doc about it and she said ok.
Decrease by 25mg a week until he is off and if something
happens, go right back to his original dose.

Last time, it was 50mg a month. Besides feeling off, he 
handled that wean ok. It was his choice to not wean anymore.
Arthur felt "off" enough that it scared him. Can't
say I blame him.



So here we go again....... will we wake....


the sleeping dragon??



We already did one decrease and so far so good. Per the info I found
online, Zonegran is completely out of your system in 63hrs.


So if that's true, Arthur's last original dose is out of his system as of yesterday.
Now his dose is lower then it has ever been since he became seizure free.
Can I get a Holy Crap???????



If he continues to have no problems we will decrease again this weekend......
Here's to hoping good things are in store for him




Monday, February 1, 2016

How is it 2016??

I was looking at other families blogs. Blogs of people/families dealing with epilepsy
and I noticed a lot of them had gone silent.
Like mine.

As the waters calm you do "enjoy the silence."
It's not that epilepsy left our lives or that something awful happened.
Cause, like me, I am sure people worry about that when
these blogs go silent.

The truth is,
life has been great. Everyone is healthy and busy.
Arthur has been seizure free for almost 4YEARS!!
(knock on wood)

I was reading over this blog and it's crazy how rough 
things were in the beginning. I can feel my
stress and despair reading my own words.
It did get better. It still is better.
I don't have the heaviness on my heart I did years ago

Do I still worry? Of course, that never stops.
Is Arthur still on meds? Yes, lots.

But he is like any other 16yr old, otherwise.
Busy with school and after school activities.

We have learned what the "new normal" truly means.

 Epilepsy is just a part of our life. We take the precautions.
Even though Arthur is great about taking his meds, we still make sure he does.
There is still a large pill box with everything he takes.
There is still many trips to the pharmacy a month
There are still emergency meds
There are still yearly visits

But life is good, really good


Saturday, February 14, 2015

No News is Good News until.............There is NEWS

I have not posted on this blog for quite sometime.
Arthur has been seizure free for...(knock on wood)
almost 3yrs



As we got comfortable in our "new norm,"
I just didn't feel like posting
Plus.....what was there to post?

Arthur has been healthy in every respect!

No seizures and his cardiac function is SO good, he got moved to
having cardiologist apppointments every two years!
Can I get Woo Hoo?!!!

So what's the news you ask.......?


What happens when you have been seizure free
for over two years and you're a teenager?

The neurologist brings up weaning


She says there is a chance he could have outgrown the epilepsy and we 
won't know that unless we try to wean his meds

If you read this blog from the beginning, you will see how
hard it was to get his seizures under control
I honestly never thought they would try to wean him

But the neurologist made a good point......
His last couple EEG's were normal. All his MRI's, CT scans, PET scan, etc
have showed nothing abnormal
Which leads her to think that his epilepsy is something he could outgrow


But the thought of weaning is really scary

There is always that chance that when we open the door to the dragon that is epilepsy, 
we may never gain control again


But Arthur is not a baby anymore,
Arthur is 15yrs old and this is something he wants to do. 

So tonight we cut out 50mg of his Zonegran.
Then we watch for four weeks.
If no seizures, then we wean another 50mg and so on until
he is off the Zonegran

For Arthur, a total wean from Zonegran would take
3 months

From that point he must stay seizure free for a year. Then we tackle
KEPPRA


Please keep Arthur and our family in your thoughts and prayers





Wednesday, December 18, 2013

1 in 26


Approximately 1 in 26 People in the United States Will Develop Epilepsy at Some Point in their Lifetime

      Epilepsy is a chronic condition of the brain that affects people all over the world. It is characterized by recurring seizures-- which are physical reactions to sudden, brief, excessive electrical discharges in brain cells. Anyone, anywhere, at any time can have a seizure.

     The physical reactions of a seizure depend on which part and how much of the brain is impacted by the excessive electrical discharges. Although most people think of a seizure as a full-body convulsion, seizures can also be brief muscle jerks or unconscious behaviors like picking at clothing or what appears to be a lapse of attention, like daydreaming.

    The frequency of seizures varies greatly, from once in a while to several per day.

    More people live with epilepsy than with autism spectrum disorders, Parkinson's disease, multiple sclerosis and cerebral palsy – combined.

     Epilepsy is one of the world's oldest known medical conditions, and yet too many people do not understand it. In too many cases, this misunderstanding has led to fear, discrimination and social isolation.
    Together, we can reduce the fear and misunderstanding, so the lives of millions of people around the world -- people living with the condition and their loved ones -- will be forever changed for the better.


Epilepsy Stats
  • 65 MILLION: Number of people around the world who have epilepsy.
  • OVER 2 MILLION: Number of people in the United States who have epilepsy.
  • 1 IN 26 people in the United States will develop epilepsy at some point in their lifetime.
  • BETWEEN 4 AND 10 OUT OF 1,000: Number of people on earth who live with active seizures at any one time. 
  • 150,000: Number of new cases of epilepsy in the United States each year
  • ONE-THIRD: Number of people with epilepsy who live with uncontrollable seizures because no available treatment works for them.
  • 6 OUT OF 10: Number of people with epilepsy where the cause is unknown


  • Did you know that more people die every year from epilepsy and related causes than from Breast Cancer???
    Yet, epilepsy doesn't get even half the amount of funding and awareness.
    Breast Cancer is a very important cause, no doubt.
    But how much Pink do you see vs. Purple????

    We need to find a way to change that





    Monday, October 21, 2013

    A Seizure By Nathan Jones

    This is amazing, yet hard to watch.
    Done by Nathan Jones




    Drawn from the actual fragmented memories of one man, this film is the reconstruction of a seizure from beginning to end.






    The End is what gets me the most. When they snap out of it.
    So realistic

    Monday, April 22, 2013

    Just when you think all is ok.......

    The "funny feeling"
    has
    returned


    Once epilepsy entered our lives we realized
    the "funny feeling" that
    Arthur complained about for months leading up to
    his first seizure
    was in fact.....an aura

    Once he started having complex partials and mentioned
    the "feeling"
    a seizure was coming

    Well lets fast forward................to today

    Arthur started to complain of it over a month ago.
    But there was no seizures
    Just the "feeling"

    I tried not to worry, he had recently started  Strattera.
    Maybe it was that?


    I called the neuro and she wanted to try and decrease the Strattera
    dose a tad.
    Down to 60mg from 80mg. Give it at least a week

    A week or so later.......

    Arthur said his stomach wasn't as upset as before
    But....
    he kept getting the "funny feeling"

    Great....


    So I call the neurologist again.....


    She says----
    " It's sounds like his meds are working but barely hanging on, hence why
    he is starting to get the 'funny feeling' again "



    He will seizure free for 1 YEAR in May...... 1YEAR
    and now
    1 month before he hits that mark
    IT
    RETURNS?!?!

    I am trying sooooooo hard to not let it worry me.
    But my heart is hanging by a thread before it lives in my stomach

    So the Doc increased his Zonsimide by 50mg.
    Another pill
    My poor kid

    No kid should have this

    Hopefully all he needed was a little medication increase.

    But I'm worried the E beast will
    never go away.
    That the meds just keep it dormant
    That he will never "outgrow" this

    Tuesday, January 15, 2013

    I'm Thankful For Flexible Spending

    As the crazy appointment month begins, I am thankful.
    Thankful for, Flexible spending.
    Those pre-tax dollars that get put on a little debit card.

    Every appointment, every medication refill. I am soooo thankful.

    So it took a couple weeks but the appointments are about to begin.
    Podiatrist X2
    New Pediatrician ( both kids)
    New General practice Doc, for both us big people
    Plus......
    You mean there is more???

    Every one gets to see the Dentist!!!
    Hopefully no teeth are pulled ;)

    We have to wait till next month to see the new Neurologist.
    Figures

    I don't have any pressing needs for Arthur right now and
    this neuro comes highly recommended.
    So I guess I can wait

    The  appointment fun commences at 0930 tomorrow !!
    And whose appointment is first?
    Mine.
    Go figure

    Tuesday, January 1, 2013

    2013 and still seizure free!

    We start the new year, 7 months seizure free!!!!


    I still think he may have had one a while back. I wrote it in his seizure log, but I am hoping it was just a severe headache and nothing more.

    The new year brings ALL new doctors, besides cardiology.
    January shall be a busy one.

    Like I have said many times before, if you are unhappy with the care or the doctor.
    SWITCH!


    So that is exactly what we have done. :)

    Here is to the hope of a great year and for this to be the last doctor switch
    we need to do for a very long time.

    Tuesday, December 4, 2012

    Tests, Appointments, and Doctors.....Oh my!!!!

    This is more of a vent.......
     Being the parent of a child with 'extra' health concerns
    is exhausting.

    Most days I take it in stride. This is part of our life.
    I take care of all the details
    ............................
    Appointments
    Specialists
    Medication
    Refills
    Insurance
    Diet
    School
    IEP's
    Heart Disease
    Epilepsy
    ADD

    An example of a regular day?

    Between 615am and 715am:
    Make sure he got up with his alarm
    Breakfast, lunch packed.
    Make sure he takes his meds
    Make sure his medical ID bracelet on

    During that I'm getting my younger one ready too.

    Until 3pm......
    Chores, errands and such
    If I'm lucky
    calls to old hospitals to get records that were suppose
    to be mailed weeks ago
    Make more appointments
    Find a new primary doctor cause are new one SUCKS

    Then there's that part of my brain that always worries. Will the school call today?
    That siren I just heard, is it going to his school?
    Everyday, I have to remind myself to breathe

    Once the kids are home......
    Chores and a little down time
    Try to help Arthur study for a couple tests he has the next day
    ADD and homework = NO FUN

    Meds at 5pm, Meds at bedtime
    Lights out 9pm
    Make sure he is still breathing before I go to bed
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    From an outside perspective it may not seem like a lot

    But this is everyday
    Some days are worse then others
    I worry if I hear a loud boom
    I worry if the dog howls in the middle of the night
    I worry if his showers take too long
    I worry if he stares off for a second to long
    I worry if he is not home from school at the exact same time everyday
    Is he ok? Did he have a seizure?
    I WORRY CONSTANTLY

    As our family has learned to deal with epilepsy in our everyday.
    Deal with all the issues and what comes with them. 
    We truly have learned to take the good with the bad
    We have learned to not let it control our life

    But some days, like yesterday
    it all becomes too much
    the stress and the worry....


    It eats at my heart and feels like an unbearable weight






    Sunday, October 28, 2012

    What if for one day you had to live in your child's shoes?


    What if, today, you were diagnosed with epilepsy?

    Today, you found out why you no longer have control of your own body
    Why you fall or shake out of the blue
    Why you become confused and wander off
    Why there are parts of your day you can not recall at all

    Epilepsy

    Today you will begin an array of testing
    That many times, produce no answers
    You will start taking medication
    that may or may not work
    Medication that will cause an onslaught of side effects

    You are warned against bathing without someone home
    Swimming alone, swimming at all
    You may never live alone
    You may never drive
    This could kill you

    If that isn't enough?
    Some people may be less than accepting
    You may be shunned or picked on
    People may be afraid of you

    You now live
     everyday 
    not knowing when
    the next seizure will come

    Not knowing if
    this medication is the one that will work

    Praying that every
    day, week, month, year
    you go seizure free.....
    Is a sign that the epilepsy will not return

    What if, today, this became your life?

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~


    November is Epilepsy Awareness Month
    Join the fight
    to end this horrible disease






    Thursday, September 20, 2012

    New Neurologist and still seizure FREE!!!!

    We finally got to see the new neurologist.
    My son didn't need anything, per say...
    cause he has been seizure free for over 4 MONTHS!!!

    Yes. I said it, FOUR MONTHS!!!!!!!!!!
    (knock on wood)

    We just recently moved and needed to establish a relationship with a new Doc.
    I had researched him. He was nice.
    But what was wrong with him you ask?

    As I explained how Arthur's Complex-Partial seizures present, he said
    "that's not a typical seizure."

    Uh what????
    He didn't really just say that did he???

    As we continued to talk he still seemed somewhat confused. Not exactly
    the reassuring appointment I hoped for.
    But he did refer Arthur to have Neuro-psychological testing before I even
    brought it up. ( Point for new Doc!)

    He did a very thorough exam and saw no need to change any
    of Arthur's meds since he has been doing so well.
    He was patient and answered all my questions.

    I am giving him the benefit of the doubt for now. Hopefully his lack
    of knowledge on complex partial seizures is just based on the fact
    that he is a newer doctor.

    He will do for now.


    Cause let's be honest, if something changes and I don't trust this Doc.
    I'll just find a new one :)


    Stats as of today: Arthur 13yrs old

    110 pds, 5'4
    Keppra 3000mg/day (1500mg 2xday)
    Zonegran 100mg 1xday





    Thursday, August 23, 2012

    Is the funny feeling returning?????

    Last week  I was awoken by a phone call from the school.
    I work night shift, so I sleep a good majority of my days.
    Then being the first week back at school, that
    was NOT what I wanted to see on my caller ID.

    It's the school nurse.
    She says," Arthur thinks he had a little seizure so he came to see me. I will let you talk to him"
    I ask my son whats going on.
    He tells me that he got the "funny feeling."

    -If you have read towards the beginning of this blog, you know that was usually a sign
    that a complex partial was coming.
    Now we think that even when the feeling didn't amount to much it was still a small seizure.-

    Arthur said he was worried so he went to the nurse. Good kid.
    He didn't have a headache and it seemed to have passed and not turn into anything more.
    THANK GOD!!
    I was so proud that he acted  so quickly and calmly.
    He was fine and he did have to go back to class.

    Part of me thinks.....was he just trying to get out of school?
    New school in the 7th grade is no doubt hard.

    OR

    Is this the slow return of the monster????


    So I try not to worry....ha ha ha ha
    AND
    Since he has been doing SO well for over 3months( knock on wood,)
    the new Neuro is in no rush to see him.
    UGH
    Not till September to be exact


    So I keep praying that the one day of  "the funny feeling," was
    just mistaken nerves.
    But we keep on vigilant watch

    Friday, August 3, 2012

    Your always on ALERT!

    We have been at our new home about a month now. So far, we just love it.
    We are all getting settled in and the kids start school
    next week!!!
    In the state we are now in they start in August.
    The kids are not as excited since they just got out of school the
    end of June. Such is life!



    Why I titled this post " Your always on ALERT," is because
    of what I experienced today.
    Let me start by saying Arthur is 3 MONTHS seizure free TODAY!!
    As wonderful as that is it doesn't remove the fear that I feel always lurks
    in my heart.

    I was at the gym riding the bike. The bikes at our gym face a window that overlooks
    the indoor and outdoor pool.
    So I am "riding" along and I notice in the outdoor pool someone is floating face down.
    Another minute or two passes and the person is still floating like that.
    But I take notice to the fact that this person appears stiff like a board.
    Arms straight above the head, legs straight out.
    THEN.....
    I see the lifeguard running into the water to this person.
    My heart sank
    What did I immediately think? Yup.
    Seizure.
    Maybe this person is having a seizure. It sure looked like it. What if
    these  pool lifeguards don't recognize that?
    So what did I do?
    I stopped, gather my things and quickly walked all the way down and out
    to the outside pool.
    My heart is racing. Maybe I can help.

    As I walk up this person is on the ground with several life guards around. They are
    about to start CPR. That's when I noticed it. They are counting out loud like they
    are doing chest compressions but they are not actually pushing on the chest.

    IT WAS A DRILL!!!!

    Sheesh.

    I'm glad they train their life guards well. But I could have done without the heart attack.
    It wasn't even someone I knew. It wasn't even real.
    But it effected me for a while after. Kind of  choked me up.


    Arthur is doing well right now. Very well. But the memories of the bad times never
    go away. The fear, the uncertainty of epilepsy. It never leaves us.
    It resurfaces on days like today.


    My heart is with each and everyone one of you out there.

    Sunday, July 1, 2012

    Almost settled and doing great!

    We moved a week ago today. To a much warmer state than we previously lived.
    We love it. It truly feels like a great fit for our family.
    Are we all unpacked???
    NO
    (not my house, but you get the idea)

    We are slowly but surely unpacking. But with school just getting out the day before we left,
    me going right back to work after the move, and the craziness that was our life before the move.
    We decided it was time for a little river get away this weekend.
    Oh it's been lovely.......



    Moving is scary when you have a child with " health concerns."
    Some people may never move because of it.
    Honestly, it worries me. But in the same way we try not to "bubble wrap" our kids, 
    despite how badly we may want to. We also can't bubble wrap our lives.
    I am SO glad we didn't.

    Did the fact that Arthur's neurologist went on maternity leave right before we left, help?
    Yes.
    I wont lie.
    We would have had to deal with someone else for a while anyways.
    Where we are now has a good reputation in all the areas he needs.

    So the commence the hunt.
    The family Doc has been picked.
    Let the referrals BEGIN!!!!!!



    In the land of Epilepsy....

    7 weeks seizure free and counting!!!!!!(knock on wood)
    The Zonegran can interfere with the body's ability to sweat. 
    We are at the river in 100+ heat and so far so good
    He definitely doesn't seem to sweat too much.
    But lots of water, gatorade, and dips in the river seem to suffice.

    Let's hope this trend continues

    Tuesday, June 19, 2012

    Great CNN article



    (CNN) -- Nathan Jones was 18 when he had his first seizure. He lost consciousness, fell off his porch and woke up to hear a paramedic yelling at him to name the president of the United States.
    Over the next four years, Jones had 10 or 11 more generalized tonic-clonic (grand mal) seizures. He had seizures in his dorm room, while driving, in class and on a trip to New York.
    Jones, 29, has epilepsy, and feels so strongly about educating people about the complex brain disorder and the seizures that stem from it that he became the project coordinator for the Epilepsy Foundation of Greater Los Angeles.
    When he heard that U.S. Commerce Secretary John Bryson had a seizure while driving in Southern California, Jones was empathetic.
    "It seems that some people have been so quick to judge him. It just goes to show you that there are so many misconceptions," Jones said of Bryson, who is under investigation after allegedly causing two car accidents last week.
    "It's such a dramatic and stressful period as it is. I can only imagine what he is going through. This is all happening in the spotlight. If he would have had a heart attack, the public would have just thrown sympathy his way."
    It is unclear what caused Bryson's seizure, which officials said was his first.
    Some doctors and those living with seizures said the Bryson incident is an opportunity to dispel myths about seizures and explain just how common they are. Bryson is not the first high-ranking public official to have a seizure: Five years ago, Chief Justice John Roberts had a seizure that caused him to fall while at his summer home. Roberts also had a seizure in 1993.
    Nathan Jones has produced a short film about what it\'s like to have an epileptic seizure.
    Nathan Jones has produced a short film about what it's like to have an epileptic seizure.
    Up to 10% of the world's population will have at least one seizure, the World Health Organization says, and having one seizure does not signal epilepsy.
    Withdrawal of certain medications, antibiotics, alcohol withdrawal and extremely low blood sugar can all cause seizures, experts say. Epilepsy, a neurological condition, is usually diagnosed after someone has had at least two seizures that were not caused by a medical condition, according to the Epilepsy Therapy Project.
    Epilepsy is the fourth most common neurological disorder in the United States after migraine, stroke and Alzheimer's disease, and yet it is widely misunderstood, according to the Institute of Medicine. In fact, one in 26 people in the United States will develop epilepsy at some point in their lifetime.
    Seizures occur when the electrical system of the brain malfunctions. The brain cells keep firing instead of discharging electrical energy in a controlled manner. The result can be a surge of energy through the brain, causing unconsciousness and muscle contractions. Some seizures, however, are barely noticed.
    "You can have your first seizure at any point," said Dr. Joseph Sirven, who worked on an Institute of Medicine report called "Epilepsy Across the Spectrum: Promoting Health and Understanding" released in March.
    "It's actually very common to present with seizure at an older age.Oftentimes, you will look for potential cerebrovascular implications," such as stroke, hemorrhages or a tumor, said Sirven, who is chairman of the Department of Neurology at the Mayo Clinic in Arizona, chairman of the Epilepsy Foundation's Professional Advisory Board and editor-in-chief of Epilepsy.com.
    "If you remember, Ted Kennedy had presented with a seizure and that led to the diagnosis of a brain tumor. It's not that uncommon. But not all seizures are brain tumors."
    Dr. Christianne Heck, medical director of the University of Southern California Comprehensive Epilepsy Program in Los Angeles, calls epilepsy a "hidden disorder."
    "Epilepsy doesn't have a poster child like muscular dystrophy. We just don't have anybody who is willing to talk about it," said Heck, who also worked on the Institute of Medicine report. "I think it's important for people to understand you can be OK. You can function at a very high level. Most of the time, 70% of the cases are easily controlled, easily managed."
    Yet a large number of people go about their daily lives hiding the fact that they have seizures because they are concerned such disclosures would negatively affect their lives, she said.
    "Lots of things contribute to that stigma and that embarrassment," Heck said. "It's a disorder of the brain, and the public doesn't understand it in terms of what it looks like and what it is and what they need to do to keep someone from having a seizure safe."
    The fact that seizures can happen any time and in public makes it difficult for some people with epilepsy, she added.
    Kevin Oliver, 46, of Los Angeles knows that problem all too well.
    "I know that's one of the main fears for people that have epilepsy -- telling other people. You always have that fear of that person's reaction. We have a wall up sometimes," he said. "I think it's a fear we don't want to be judged in a certain way. We're trying to protect ourselves."
    But the aerospace technician said it's important for anyone with a seizure disorder to be honest about his or her medical condition. Everyone at work knows he has epilepsy, he said.
    "They are very protective of me. I do feel it's something you need to express. You shouldn't keep it hidden. You do want people to know."
    Still, it isn't always easy, Oliver said.
    "You feel embarrassed when you are coming out of it," he said. "There are so many people standing around looking at you. They are looking at you out of concern, but that's not your first reaction."
    When Oliver heard about Bryson, he said he was immediately relieved no one was hurt.
    "I have had one before when I was driving," Oliver said. "I know the fear behind that. When you come out of it, you don't know what happened. You are just hoping you didn't injure anyone."
    Frank Chavez, 63, a retired parole agent in California, had his first seizure in 1999 while driving his daughter's car. He was later told that he got off the freeway, hit a black van and just kept going.
    "I lived about two blocks away and instinctively I just drove that car right home," he said. "I started walking up the driveway."
    He was putting the key in the door when he heard a man screaming. The man was yelling that Chavez should have stopped after the accident.
    Chavez has frequent and serious seizures, is on medication and has even undergone surgeries to try to stop them.
    "This is a disease that jumps out of nowhere," said Chavez's wife, Patricia. "We used to call it the monster. We never knew when it would jump out."
    When her husband's seizures begin, Patricia Chavez first asks God to let him live. Then she looks at the clock to time the seizure and tries to turn her husband on his side to help him breathe. She tries to stay calm and talk to her husband.
    At some point, Frank Chavez understands his wife is talking to him. "I'll hear my wife and she'll tell me, 'Frank, Frank,' " he said. "I do hear her. I just can't do the things she wants me to do."
    The lack of control is something you have to deal with, said people living with seizures.
    "You become 200% vulnerable to your surroundings and to (other people's) knowledge of what is happening to you," said Jones of the Epilepsy Foundation of Greater Los Angeles.
    "If I have a seizure in public and I'm next to a bunch of broken glass, are they going to be able to react? Are they going to forgive me when I can't react and listen to them? It's part of the education process. Your brain has just suffered this huge electrical brainstorm."
    Heck said anyone living with epilepsy that is not well-controlled should seek out neurologists who are highly trained in managing epilepsy. She and others urge people to seek out information about seizures and epilepsy.
    "The biggest misconception is that it is a disease of the young and that it is something you are only going to see in a younger kid or a younger adult," Sirven said. "This is actually a condition that affects all age groups, and older adults seem to have a higher propensity for this. This is not uncommon."
    Soo Ihm, 41, was diagnosed with epilepsy when she was 6 or 7. She said she gets frustrated that more people with epilepsy don't speak out. People who haven't had seizures need to understand there is nothing to be afraid of, she said.
    "People don't understand the full spectrum of seizures and also the idea of a seizure," Ihm said. "It looks so different and people don't know what to do when you are having one. Epilepsy has such a range of experiences. Seizures can last from a second to several minutes. You can be fully aware, you can lose total consciousness or anywhere in between. "
    For information about seizures and epilepsy, go to:http://epilepsyfoundation.org/ and http://www.epilepsy.com/.